Why I Considered Marrying Quite Early
It is actually so hard to overlook the fact that I was sitting across from the dean to my department about one week from my graduation. I had turned twenty one a week before this day. In as much as I was just in my third year in college, I had gained enough credits to allow me graduate. I was actually inside her office where she was marveling at my potential to cram one year’s worth of coursework in a limited period of time. She actually felt that I rushed through the course so that I can take my master’s program quite early. She however did not know that I had been engaged as from November and plans for the wedding were underway. This is now the time that I told her that I was getting married just before she could hand me my folder.
It is not a new thing that she was unable to say a word. This is based on the fact that a good number of people are of the opinion that your twenties are reserved for your associates. This is now the time that you will have to learn more about yourself and traveling. It is now the time to understand who you truly are. But I wanted to experience all these with my partner. I met my partner when he was a sophomore while I was in high school. We actually conversed online for a while before he eventually requested me out for a dinner. We soon became intertwined and there was no looking back. WE actually had to go through the face of immaturity as well as insecurity. You will learn that jealousy will only beget contempt. We actually never thought of splitting up.
By the time we were getting married, he was twenty two while I was twenty one. This has been close to ten years now that have been filled with great memories. I have helped him to discover a great ability in cooking apart from helping him prepare for marathons. We have actually switched careers over six times now. Together we have been blessed with a pair of babies that we cherish so much. It is barely a fortnight before we can finally celebrate ten years of this wedded bliss as well as one and a half decades of being together.
I have never ever regretted the decision to marry at an early stage in life. We actually knew we were meant for one another right from the beginning. There was no point of getting whatever out of my system. He also found it fit not to fall vulnerable to sowing wild oats. We took things slowly. This was the right decision for all of us.